Responsive and Spontaneous Desire: Understanding Sexual Desire

The common story around sexual desire is that it just happens. You see your partner walk in through the door, or come out of the shower wrapped in a towel, and bam! You want sex. This is generally called spontaneous desire. But there’s another form of desire that’s often left out of the movies, andContinueContinue reading “Responsive and Spontaneous Desire: Understanding Sexual Desire”

Navigating Sexual Desire: Why One Partner Wants Sex More Than the Other

A common concern I often hear from couples is that one partner desires sex more than the other or takes the lead in initiating intimacy. Over time, this dynamic can lead to feelings of rejection, inadequacy, and frustration. However, when I dig deeper into the issue, it often turns out that the problem isn’t a lack of attraction. So, what’s really going on?